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The Story of a Friendship that Never Dies

  • Writer: Joe
    Joe
  • Feb 12
  • 4 min read

Updated: Feb 12



And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. Revelation 21:4


How I Lost a Friend


I never thought I’d be sitting here sharing this story. But sometimes, life has a way of reminding us of what’s truly precious and what we take for granted until it's gone. If you've ever lost someone who was not just a friend, but family to you, someone who knew your heart and who made you laugh so hard that it physically hurt, then you know exactly what I’m talking about. This is the story of how I met someone who became not just a friend, but also family, and how losing her changed my life forever. And I want to share it with you because, well, if you’ve ever lost someone you love, this might just help you heal a little too. Grab a tissue or two, because this is a journey through laughter, tears, and a bond that can never be broken.


It All Started on Facebook


It all started on Facebook. Yes, you heard that right, Facebook. I know what you’re thinking. How could such a powerful, life-changing friendship begin on a social media platform where people only seem to share memes and argue about politics? But trust me when I tell you, that’s where it all began. It was a simple message at first, nothing extraordinary. But the moment we started talking, something felt different. It wasn’t the usual small talk; it was real, raw, and sincere. It was like I’d found someone who truly understood me, even though we had never met in person. We shared the same sense of humor, the same nerdiness, the same outlook on life, and so many more things. And just like that, an unexpected connection was made. Little did I know, that first message would turn into a bond that would last for years.


The Voice that Became My Comfort


After a few weeks of chatting online, we decided it was time to take it to the next level, yes, the phone calls. You know those conversations that start with a simple "hello" and end with both of you laughing so hard you can’t catch your breath? Well, that’s exactly what happened. Our conversations went from a few minutes to hours. We would talk about everything: our families, our favorite TV shows, and the dreams we had for the future. But here’s the thing, what really made those phone calls special was that we were there for each other, no matter what. She was the person who listened to me vent when life felt overwhelming, and I did the same for her. We didn’t just talk about the good stuff; we talked about the hard stuff too. There were times when I was struggling in life, and she was right there to remind me of how great life can be with friends who truly care and are there for you. And when she went through some tough situations, I was the one reminding her of the joy that could still be found even in the darkest of times. Looking back, I realize that those long phone calls weren’t just about passing time. They were about building a connection so strong, so unbreakable, that nothing could ever tear it apart.


Life Had a Way of Keeping Us Close


We’d run into each other unexpectedly whether it'd be at the grocery store or at funeral homes. It was like God was always reminding us of our special bond. Every time we ran into each other, it was like picking up where we left off, talking about everything and nothing at all. Laughing until our stomachs hurt, making plans for the future, and joking about how we should just get married, divorce, and marry again just for fun. You know, the usual best friend banter.


Our Last Meeting


The last time I saw her, we didn’t know it would be the last time. I wish I had said more, hugged a little tighter, or stayed a little longer. But that’s the thing about life, isn’t it? We never know when it’s the last time we’ll see someone we love. When I got the news that she was gone, I couldn’t believe it. It didn’t make sense. It still doesn’t. She always knew how to lift me up, and now she was gone, just like that. But as I sit here, reflecting on everything we shared, I realize that her spirit, her laughter, and her love are still with me. She may not be here physically, but she’s a part of me, forever.


She Changed My Life Forever


Losing her changed me. It showed me how precious every moment is and how important it is to cherish the people we love. We can’t take anything for granted. Life is short, and the people who truly make a difference in our lives leave an imprint on our hearts that can never be erased.


Conclusion


I want to encourage you today. If there’s someone you love, someone who makes you laugh until you cry, tell them how much they mean to you. Don’t wait. Life is unpredictable, and we never know how much time we have. And if you’ve lost someone like I did, remember this. While they may be gone from this world, their love never truly leaves you. It lives on in your memories, in the way you honor them, and in the way you continue to love others.


If you’ve ever lost someone special, I’d love to hear your story. Please share your thoughts in the comments below. Let’s create a space where we can honor those who have touched our lives and find comfort in knowing that their love is still with us, even after they’re gone.


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Thanks for reading. And remember, no matter what, love never ends.

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